still Single and still Happy!

“Changing boyfriend is not my hobby but times and situations dragged me to such condition where I can’t express it rightly”.

There is a Life hidden in this line and I just couldn’t resist making her part of my blog. It was flexible to make her convince because she is a sweet heart who can’t say NO. She was ready to be part of my blog by standing as one of the ordinary lady among many living in their own world who find themselves shattered by the very common reason of the Status “SINGLE”. I have been talking to her quite a long so I came close to her life which made me feel that there is a story in her too. A very common story but it is a fact.

So people wondering who is she?????

Well she is just a regular and very natural person among you living in the busy place called New York. She is among you walking down the demanding streets of New York carrying her bag in hurry. Or you might have seen her down the subway waiting for her train to get to work on time or back to home lately.

She has simple black straight hair and a beautiful smile to notice. She is very much among you and very much like you who work really hard and she has her own reasons of working harder and harder just like any of you. She sometimes counts how many years she has past in New York being a good strong woman but she tried to keep her mind away from all these thinking it will ruin her present. Then she smiles again and brings the charm on her face.

She just touched 30 last month. But there is a common girl hiding behind her age, who loves to laugh out loud without caring what people might think about her. She speaks rapidly which can be little problem for those who don’t know her but she speaks spontaneous. She is very straightforward and very open to people. She loves talking for sure but keeps selective friends around her. She treasures the bond with her Family and relatives strongly. She loves her friends dearly. She loves her best friend like heaven and keeps the bond stronger that I have noticed lately. She stays away from beating around the bushes. She waits for the weekend to jam around with friends and travels around the new places forgetting all the odds issues of life.

I always find her very lively whenever we have conversation over webcam. I always find her happy and smiling. There isn’t a moment when I have caught her sad or stressed. She is always full of charm.

I remember I asked her this particular question few times and she always had the same answer.

How is your life at this stage ????

Without taking any time to think, she speaks so spontaneously;

Life is beautiful and I make my life beautiful. Hardly anything bothers me at all. I even don’t have time to think about the people who hurt me. I don’t waste time thinking about what they did or why they did. I don’t waste my valuable time thinking over such issues. I am always an easygoing person. I don’t think too much over anything that I think is absurd. Life is a serious matter I know but if it’s not going the way you want to then leave it. Just feel ease about everything that is going in life and stay happy.

I was quiet for a while. I took time to think and I was searching myself in these words if I resemble myself in her. But no, I wish if I stand to be such easy going person like her. She strongly believes in FATE and says ‘whatever happens, it happens for the best’. May be this is the one reason why she is standing positive all the time.

She takes moment to think and proceed further;

You know Lhamo,

My life is very beautiful but not perfect. I accept this fact. Every woman has their own image of world where she stores her dreams and she wished from her heart to turn those dreams into a reality and land on a wonderland of her life.

I have always wanted to be a best daughter, best sister, best friend, best mother and a best Wife to someone. I am blessed that God showered me happiness with all these except that I am single right now. Yes! I honestly speak this out that I am still single when I have the biggest priority to see myself as a best mother and a best wife. I am very much happy with life and over the accomplishments that I have so far for my close ones. I think I should include my boss too.

I asked her how life is being single when you value to have a family…

Living a life in city of Big Apple is very stressful unlike in India. I had boyfriends and somehow my bond with them never worked out. My relation with my boyfriends never worked and I never blame them or myself. It just didn’t work out. That’s it. I see many fake and forceful and doubtful relations around me where they have to Act or have to take the unwanted pressures and that’s pathetic. So it’s better being single than landing on a wrong and regretful relation. In that case I can assure myself that I am having a stress less life.

Being a single to me has two different feelings, feeling of freedom and feeling of loneliness. Freedom because I have enough time for myself and I can do all the things I wish to do without compromising anything. I have time for my friends and chitchat over every single things going around. I love this.

Feeling of loneliness do certainly bothers me sometimes but it is not a big deal. Loneliness is a part of life and so natural. I have accepted that so I think the People need to accept it.

She expressed her words with an ease and I was delighted with the fact that she is very good at expressing.

She has everything in her life so far and now that I know she is a very happy lady, walking with the steps of her 30 I hope someone unexpectedly expressing all his love and affection will walk into her life to fulfill her dream of wonderland.

Season changes everything changes but only one thing remains the same and that's her  her evergreen SMILE..

Thank you so much for giving time and sharing sweety!

Love and only love I have for you!

Lhamo J