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| On the way to Dharan, the only baby who was travelling with us. Auguest 19/12011. Time 5:41 A.M. |
There is this particular thing called
motherhood that was in my mind for some time now. I have my friends who enjoy it with the
beauty in it and with the softness of love that they give to their babies. It
looks beautiful in every way. I am sure there is an amazing different feeling
in that bond.
I use social network. I am
connected with my friends from different countries through social networks. I
often sign in to see the newsfeed and guess what I see, whole lots of pictures
of the new born baby, right from the day they are born, to the rice feeding
days to the first day of the new clothes, first day in the crib, then comes the
photograph of baby in bathtub. I can see the whole lots of love and excitements
of being motherhood in them. This is good for the baby for sure because in a way,
lots of picture-memories will be there to remember the moment again.
I think it is indeed a good
feeling watching your new angels grow in front of your eyes with each passing days.
Touching the softness of the tiny feet, playing with their very tiny finger
tips when you feed, gazing in the small eyes and seeing a big dream of holding
their hands and walking, giving a deep glance at the baby and trying to figure
it out if there is a bit of your shape in him/her. All these are love. A
selfless love from a woman to her child. That woman is certainly You. A great
loving mother. And there is another woman who is a step greater than you and she
is your mother.
Are we forgetting something in
here?
I hope we are not. We are wise
enough to differentiate between black and white, right and wrong, then how
possibly can we forget the genuine love that we always have. A mother’s
love.
Parents think no harm for their
child. They try to give the best they have for them but the problem is their
hard work is sometimes not noticed. And I wonder why???
With due respect to all the newly
mothers who always stand in the place to please our heart and eyes, it’s high
time to perceive the love someone has for you every since you made the first
cry stepping out of her womb. She had loved you even before you were brought on
this earth. You were a dream, a dream that she dreamt for the whole nine
months. This is what we call a Mother.
When you hold your adorable baby
in your hand, just feel that she had felt the same feeling for you once. When
you see a dream in your little-heart’s eyes, just give a thought that she had
seen the same dream once. When you feel the world’s happiness in touching your child‘s
hands and feet, learn by heart that she had experienced the same touch of happiness.
I don’t know why am I writing
about all these, may be its because I am not a mother yet, and I have not have
this feeling of having babies and giving 100% of entire care at one place. But
then I am glad, I knew something in advance, something that is worth to keep in
heart and bring balance in sharing love.
So whenever you hold your newborn
give a glance at your mother with a smile and say ‘Thank-You’ at least. The way
of sharing love will be full of convenience with understandings of motherhood
then. Have a happy and great motherhood. And cherish them with every moment and
do not forget to keep videos and photographs of your angels……
Mashutzo Writes....
